"Parallels" — A Story of Cultural Duality and Identity

This is a story held together by family—by love that stretches across borders, and by roots that run deeper than any passport or place.
It begins in Ghana, on the warm coast of West Africa. A place full of rhythm, history, and tradition. It’s where my mother and father were born. Where their dreams were shaped—before they knew what the world would demand of them. Before they knew that raising a family would mean letting go of the familiar and trusting something uncertain.
They left home not to leave behind their culture—but to build something more, something greater for the children they hadn’t yet met. Every visa application, every plane ticket, every long night was not just an act of ambition—it was an act of love.
But being born far from where your family started doesn’t mean being distant from it. I was raised by the stories, the food, the values, the laughter that echoed from Ghana. Even when we lived far away, Ghana never felt far from us. It was in the way we gathered, in the way we prayed, in the way we held onto each other.
Still, I sometimes found myself caught in-between—between cultures, between accents, between how the world saw me and how I saw myself. It wasn’t that I didn’t know who I was—but I was learning how all the parts of me fit together. Ghanaian. American. Child of immigrants. Member of a family that never let distance dilute connection.
There’s a certain kind of familiarity when I return to Ghana. Not just nostalgia—something deeper. It feels like coming home to a place I never lived, but always belonged. Like seeing the roots of a tree you’ve been growing all your life.
This journey—of finding identity, of honoring heritage, of holding family close through every shift and chapter—is not just mine. It’s a story we share. One shaped by sacrifice, sustained by love, and still unfolding.
Because who I am is not just me—
It’s the we that raised me.
The culture that made me.
The family that continues to carry me.
These are my parallels—not a contradiction, but a harmony.
A beautiful balance of where we’ve been, and where we’re going—together.
My story begins long before I took my first breath.
It begins in Ghana—a small yet vibrant country on the West African coast, where my mother and father were born. They could not have known, standing on the shores of their homeland, that life would soon carry them across oceans, away from what they knew, toward what they hoped for.
Aseye Gatty
